Sympathy Of Egoism

Ladies and gents,

I’m not going to talk about how mortality is increasing nowadays, nor about the toddler who was hit by two vehicles nor the sudden death of the Moto GP Athlete. No, not of them. Im fully understand that death could come any times by any ways. Sound like the way of Love comes, isn’t it?

We just can’t fully overprotect ourselves and BANG!! We save.

Also we can’t just borderless fully borderless and BANG!! We die.

But it will not be a sin if we try our best to live a better life in a careful ways. Take care ourselves and live a healthy life.

Off of it. Right now I’d like to say about sympathy.

For me, humanity chain of relationship is created by needs.

Because I need you to lend me some money then I come closer to you

Because I need you to accompany me to a prom, so that I ask you.

Of course it’s such a clear sentence to show the example. (and you also could change it to the contrary)

But don’t you think about this, something more egoist, something more outside your box, maybe outside anyone’s boxes.

Because :

I need you to smile to me so that I smile to you.

I need my sight to be cleared on the road, so I would like to put aside the toddler who has just hit by the vehicle

Or at least I need my way become clean so that I would like to throw the garbage onto the trash.

Don’t people like for being a king? Then why don’t you be a king today!

but, with yourself as a servant also.

Don’t you know when you treat yourself beautifully, in a special way and luxurious. Maybe others, no no no. it’s absolutely! Others will do the same to you!!

Waw!

Look likes a Politics of Expancy, isn’t it?

King = You

1^st Servant = You

2^nd servant = maybe someone on your family. But it is not YOU!! Wonderful!

3^rd servant = anybody.

You can’t see it clearly? Okay..okay..

Let me give an example of very two gossipers, A and B

One day A is going to prepare a dinner for the class. B is A’s assistance. Then they come up with a conversation

A : the dish is sure so delicious. But it’s so sticky of the chocolate Pie. It’s keeping dirty the side of the plate when I put it on.

B : well we should try to make it any good then for the next plate.

A : Okay then. For the a little dirty plate. May we serve it for Anita (maybe Anita is your friend)

B :Okay good. She never take a serious problem with it.

A : and the other dirty plate for XX ? (this is you!!)

B : no, we should not give it to XX. She always do everything clean and clearly. So it maybe annoy her and it will make a bad impression.

See?

This is what I mean. People will do what you usually do. This is could be called as a sympathy. The reaction of something happened among us.

People nowadays sure lack of sympathy. They think “my is mine, your is yours.”

I can not blame the development of technology nor the ways your parents rise you nor the environment treat you.

But don’t you ever think this life is not about you? It’s about something bigger beyond your imagination.

But if you couldn’t show your sympathy in a normal ways, that you react because your mind, your heart told you so. Because of love.

At least because your state of egoism. Because you feel it will bother you. Because you don’t like to see something mess up.

Try to give your sympathy with love, or at least with egoism.

Or if you are too busy for doing that. At least say “I can see.” And maybe it will improves to “I can hear.” Then “I can help.” Although it will be done with your own way.

But don’t let it be too late to do something.

Make every second of your lives counted.

I’m not a good kind angelic people. But at least I know.

Our life is too xoxo to waste.